Paul Chaplin I Want to Love But

Paul Chaplin has led a varied and colourful life with roles spanning everything from multi-millionaire lawyer to a career in the adult entertainment industry. He has both made and lost fortunes and is probably best-known as the former owner of Loaded magazine and Loaded TV. He has also spent time in the music industry and as the writer and director of two successful Netflix series. Chaplin has been in and out of the media over the last 10 years and is now a qualified CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) practitioner. In his new book, I Want to Love But .

Realising the Power of You, he draws on his own varied experience and certified CBT techniques to help the reader realise that by really being you, you can get the love you want. So many people wish that their relationship to love could be better, and happier. As many people fear the impact of love on their lives and happiness. But few people really want to change, as the price of engaging with love. Yet, this is what self-help guides typically ask you to do.

Paul s approach is very different. The book shows how you can get the love you want, by being You and by committing to yourself. The good news is that you don t need to change a thing about yourself. You can get the love you want, just by being yourself. How easy is that$42 It s not about learning to love yourself:

a common theme in self-help which is merely pursuing an illusion of love. It s you who wants to love, not some fantasy person. We all experience WAFER: Walls, Anxieties, Fears, Energies and Reactions. I Want To Love But urges you to preserve your WAFER, not crumble it.

By being More you, not Less you. By becoming Bigger, not Smaller. By appreciating all the good and all the bad in you. By becoming better at simply being You.